Friday, August 15, 2008

Happy 19th Birthday!


Well, "Highness" (as we like to call her) turns the grand 19 years old today. She rules this house with a strict paw. We are merely here to serve her kitty needs - which includes treats, pets, brushes and lazing about on our back deck soaking up the afternoon sun. Being half Siamese, she is a very vocal little kitty and is always very clear as to what she wants and will continue to meow or stare us down until we give her what she wants. And we, being the softies that we are, give in!

She has started to show the signs of aging and has slowed down a lot in the past year. We just enjoy every minute of every day that we have with her. She is such a sweet and loving kitty (at least to us).

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Hyperparathyroidism Diagnosis

Please forgive this very long post. I just hope that if this can help one person, then I'm glad.

A few weeks ago, I was diagnosed with hyperparathyroidism. I’ve been trying to wrap my brain around this and learning all I can about this under-diagnosed condition. It was found by one of my doctors when I had a high calcium level in my blood. Further blood work found that I also had high parathyroid hormone levels, meaning that I have primary hyperparathyroidism. I will be having surgery on September 15th to have the offending parathyroid gland removed and regain my life again.

Now, for a little lesson: We all have 4 parathyroid glands (no, they are NOT the same as a thyroid gland. In the picture at left, they are the small yellow objects over the thyroid and have 2 on each side of the trachea.). The ONLY purpose of the parathyroid glands is to regulate the calcium level in our body so that the nervous and muscular systems can function properly. This is all they do. They measure the amount of calcium in the blood every minute of every day... and if the calcium levels go down a little bit, the parathyroid glands recognize it and make parathyroid hormone (PTH) which goes to the bones and takes some calcium out and puts it into the blood. When the calcium in the blood is high enough, then the parathyroids shut down and stop making PTH.

The most common cause of hyperparathyroidism is the development of a benign tumor in one of the parathyroid glands. This enlargement of one parathyroid gland is called a parathyroid adenoma which accounts for about 94% of all patients with primary hyperparathyroidism (this is what I have). This “naughty” parathyroid gland is slowly causing damage to my body because it puts out an abnormally high level of calcium in the blood which can slowly destroy a number of tissues. Parathyroid adenomas can range in size from an olive to a walnut. The normal parathyroid gland is about the size of a grain of rice... but one cell inside this normal parathyroid gland went out of control and started reproducing itself until a large tumor developed (naughty thing!). This tumor will almost always continue to grow until it is removed (which is why I have scheduled my surgery to remove it on Sept 15th). As it grows, it makes more hormone and will make you feel worse. This tumor is constantly making parathyroid hormone which is what takes the calcium out of your bones and makes the calcium in your blood too high. This is exactly what I don’t want!

Some Symptoms of Parathyroid Disease
  • Loss of energy. Don't feel like doing much. Tired all the time.
  • Just don't feel well; don't quite feel normal. Hard to explain but just feel kind of bad.
  • Feel old. Don't have the interest in things that you used to.
  • Can't concentrate, or can't keep your concentration like in the past.
  • Depression.
  • Osteoporosis and Osteopenia.
  • Bones hurt; typically it's bones in the legs and arms but can be most bones.
  • Don't sleep like you used to. Wake up in middle of night. Trouble getting to sleep.
  • Tired during the day and frequently feel like you want a nap.
  • Spouse claims you are more irritable and harder to get along with (cranky, bitchy).
  • Forget simple things that you used to remember very easily.
  • Gastric acid reflux; heartburn; GERD.
  • Decrease in sex drive.
  • Thinning hair (predominately in older females).
  • Kidney Stones.
  • High Blood Pressure (sometimes mild, sometimes quite severe; up and down a lot).
  • Recurrent Headaches (usually patients under the age of 40).
  • Heart Palpitations (arrhythmias). Typically atrial arrhythmias.
Most people with hyperparathyroidism will have 4 - 6 of these symptoms. Thankfully, I have very few of them. In general, the longer you have hyperparathyroidism, the more symptoms you will develop.

Side note: this diagnosis also carries with it one nasty little secret – an 85% miscarriage rate, of which I’ve had 7 of them.

Monday, August 11, 2008

August Referrals are in...

Here's the official post from the CCAA.
The CCAA has finished the review of the adoption application documents registered with our office before January 31, 2007.

The CCAA has finished the placement of children for the families whose adoption application documents were registered with our office before January 31, 2006.
What I don't understand is that some of these dates are included in those of the Chinese New Year and why didn't they go through February 5th to include the rest of the Chinese New Year dates? The CCAA office was closed during those days and no dossiers were logged in at that time, so I'm just so confused?! So much for the psychological boost of a large referral month!

So, they referred 6 days worth of LIDs and now we have 164 days worth of referrals to go... 2010 is still looking like a reality... bummer!

Friday, August 8, 2008

Beijing Olympics 8-8-08

Well, this evening I was mesmerized by the amazing opening ceremony for the start of the Olympics. It truly was beautiful to watch. I was just amazed that 2008 people could stay in sinc for the whole performance - whether it was the cool drummers or tai chi masters. WOW!! If you missed it, it's definitely worth a peek at the video stream of it.

I also love the slogan "One World One Dream", but I'd like to modify it a bit to say "In My World, My Dream is to Have My Daughter Home with Me NOW"

Let the games begin...

Sunday, August 3, 2008

National Mustard Day 2008

On Saturday, Robert and I headed off to Mt. Horeb - Troll capital of the world and home of the Mustard Museum (where they have the world'd largest selection of mustards to see and buy) - to celebrate National Mustard Day. We only live about 15 minutes from there. It was a beautiful day here in Madison with temps in the mid-80s and sunny. They had free Oscar Meyer hot dogs (only free if you slathered them with mustard, of course!), the Oscar Meyer weiner-mobile (you could get your free weiner-mobile whistles and get to see inside the vehicle), music and lots of games for the kids. It was a lot of fun.


Note: I am holding a "poisonous" hot dog. I actually put some ketchup (along with some mustard) on mine. All of the ketchup bottles had "poison" stickers on them. You gotta love a warped sense of humor.

Adoption Piece on NBC Nightly News

Not sure how many of you caught the adoption piece on NBC's Nightly News last night, but here's a link to view it. It didn't say anything we didn't already know...
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/25988324#25988324

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

TV Series "China from the Inside"

Tonight on PBS was part 4 of a 4-part series called "China from the Inside." It was a beautiful and sometimes sad account about China. It really provided a unique view of China - the Communist Party, Rural Women, the Chinese environmental problems, and religious freedom. It was a really fascinating series that really gave me a deeper understanding of my future daughter's country and the culture that she will be coming from. Below is a description from tonight's final episode. Since it's PBS, I'm sure that they will replay them all. It is a worthwhile series to watch.

Episode 4: Freedom and Justice
Religious worship in China is problematic for Tibetan Buddhists, Catholics separated from Vatican influence, the 40 million adherents of China's unofficial churches, and the Falun Gong. Civic problems include forced evictions, government cover-up of AIDS, corruption and land grabbing. Filmed in Tibetan temples, newspaper offices and a labor camp, this final episode asks: what are the limits of freedom -- and the threats to stability?

Friday, July 25, 2008

Definitions

This came from Rita L on my China Lifebooks yahoo group that I'm on and I thought this was so wonderful.

Natural Child: Any child who is not artificial.
Real Parent: Any parent who is not imaginary.
Your Own Child: Any child who is not someone else's child.
Adopted Child: A natural child, with a real parent, who is all my own.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

I Wish I Could Use These Airfares

I was checking some airfares on American Airlines website and I came across these fare sales for China. While they are of no use to me (unfortunately), I know that some of you who read my site may be traveling soon. Here's some of the fares they are advertising - they are all to/from Shanghai. Fares are valid for outbound travel August 26 through November 30, 2008. All travel must be complete by December 30, 2008.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Happy Anniversary to Us!


Yesterday, we celebrated 6 wonderful years of marital bliss. (or as Robert likes to say, "6 down, 1 to go...") Time sure flies when you're having fun! We celebrated by having a beer on the Memorial Union Terrace and then went out for a very nice dinner at one of our favorite Italian restaurants - Bellini Italian Restaurant. Robert even bought me some beautiful red roses. I guess he occasionally appreciates me!

Here's a look back at our wedding photo. I don't feel any different now...