Tuesday, December 30, 2008

Shayna, Rest in Peace


Tonight, Shayna let us know that she needed to play with the other kitties in heaven. She is finally at peace. This photo is one of the last photos I took of her only 2 weeks ago.

Shayna was my trusted companion for over 19 years. She was with me through the good and the bad times, always greeting me with meows and lavishing me with purrs and attention. She even grew to love Robert (not an easy task for her because she had issues trusting anyone besides her mommy). Those two just loved to have their afternoon naps and snuggles together. She is truly going to be missed by both of us.

Monday, December 29, 2008

Ending The Year On A Good Note

Well, the CCAA got another batch of referrals out this month. They are now through February 28, 2006, a 5-day referral batch. There will probably be another quick turnaround for matches before the Chinese New Year (the Year of the Ox begins on January 26). We shall see. We are now 136 more referral days to go. Yipee!! So close, but yet so far!!

Thursday, December 25, 2008

Hanukkah 2008

Last weekend we had Robert's family here for Hanukkah. I'm a bit late on posting because I just kept forgetting to download all of the photos. We had lots of food (I am a Jewish mom-to-be, you know...). I made eggplant dip, spanakopita, veggie lasagna, garlic bread, and potato latkes with apple sauce. All vegetarian so my mother-in-law and brother-in-law could eat. My nieces had a great time and are growing up so fast. They especially loved the American Girl dolls that Grandma and Uncle David bought them. Here's the whole gang! The joys of self-timers...

Toxic melamine is suspected in seafood from China

Industry experts and businesspeople in China say that the industrial chemical has been routinely added to fish and animal feed to artificially boost protein readings. This is just a short excerpt, for the complete story, click here.
By Don Lee and Tiffany Hsu
December 24, 2008
Reporting from Los Angeles and Shanghai -- Melamine in Chinese-produced milk powder has sickened hundreds of thousands of children and added to a growing list of made-in-China foods banned across the globe. Now, some scientists and consumer advocates are raising concerns that fish from China may also be contaminated with the industrial chemical.

China is the world's largest producer of farm-raised seafood, exporting billions of dollars worth of shrimp, catfish, tilapia, salmon and other fish. The U.S. imported about $2 billion of seafood products from China in 2007, almost double the volume of four years earlier, according to the U.S. Department of Agriculture.

But industry experts and businesspeople in China say that melamine has been routinely added to fish and animal feed to artificially boost protein readings. And new research suggests that, unlike in cows and pigs, the edible flesh in fish that have been fed melamine contains residues of the nitrogen-rich substance.

Melamine, commonly used in plastics and dishware, can lead to urinary problems such as kidney stones and even renal failure.

Monday, December 22, 2008

Happy Hanukkah!

It's that time of year when presents are given and received. The only one I truly want is the one that I can't have - my daughter. It's been 2 years, 5 months and 1 week since we've been logged in and it feels like so much longer. One of these years I'll get the present that we've always dreamed of - being a family...

Wednesday, December 10, 2008

December Referrals are in

The CCAA has finished the placement of children for the families whose adoption application documents were registered with our office before Feb. 23, 2006. A 6-day referral month. Only 141 days worth of referrals to go...

Tuesday, December 9, 2008

Orphanage Donation Increase

Well, it's official... the China Center of Adoption Affairs has announced that the orphanage donation/child rearing fee will increase to 35,000 RMB (roughly $5,000 - $5,100), effective January 1, 2009. Let's hope that this will lead to a speed up in the referral rates. Time will tell...

Note: the old fee was $3000 USD which had been unchanged over the past decade, so they were due for an increase I guess...

Monday, December 1, 2008

Thanksgiving 2008

Thanksgiving has come and gone. Here are a few highlights from the big day. Robert and I were in Milwaukee celebrating with my family. There were about 20 of us at my Aunt's house. It's the only time of year when my whole family is together and that is also when we do our family Hanukkah gift exchange (for my nephews).

Thursday, November 20, 2008

Shopping Tip!

With the holidays quickly approaching, I thought I should remind people of this great way to shop and help out a great charity at the same time. If you enter Amazon through the Love Without Boundaries website, they will get 4% of the total sale. LWB is a great charity that serves special needs children in China. See their link below and it will prompt you to the Amazon website.
http://lwbblog.com/?page_id=9

Wednesday, November 19, 2008

Foreign adoptions drop sharply

Please excuse this long post, but this article explains how international adoption is on the decline in the US.

Restrictions in China to blame, in part, for lowest numbers since 1999
The Associated Press
updated 7:58 p.m. CT, Mon., Nov. 17, 2008

NEW YORK - The number of foreign children adopted by Americans fell 12 percent in the past year, reaching the lowest level since 1999 as some countries clamped down on the process and others battled with allegations of adoption fraud.

China, which for a decade was the leading source for international adoptions, accounted for the biggest decline and dropped out of the top spot. It was replaced by Guatemala, which almost certainly will lose that status in 2009 because of a corruption-related moratorium on new adoptions imposed by U.S. officials.

Figures for the 2008 fiscal year, released by the State Department on Monday, showed 17,438 adoptions from abroad, down from 19,613 in 2007. The all-time peak was 22,884 in 2004.

Tighter restrictions
Reasons for the decline vary from country to country. China and Russia — the two largest sources of adoptees over the past 15 years — have sought to care for more of their abandoned and orphaned children at home, and China has imposed tighter restrictions on foreign applicants.

The numbers were sobering to advocates of international adoption, who expect the drop to continue for 2009 as Guatemala struggles to rein in its formerly freewheeling adoption industry.

"There are still tens of millions of orphans around the world — and we know there are millions of Americans willing to adopt these kids," said Chuck Johnson, chief operating officer of the National Council for Adoption. "Countries are very reluctant to let go of what they consider their future, even though they'll readily acknowledge the future for these kids is not promising."

Biggest drop in China
By far the biggest drop was for adoptions from China, which fell to 3,909 from 5,453 in 2007 and a peak of 7,906 in 2005. Among the factors: a rise in domestic adoptions as China prospers and tighter restrictions on foreign adoptions that exclude single people, older couples, the obese and those with financial or health problems.

As a result, waiting times to complete an adoption from China have increased in many cases to three or four years, a deterrent to many aspiring adoptive parents. China offers a faster timetable for foreigners willing to adopt children with physical or emotional disabilities.

Adoptions from Guatemala also declined in the past year, from 4,728 to 4,123, and the number is projected to be sharply lower for 2009. Guatemalan officials are trying to replace an old system, which allowed abuses ranging from fraud to child snatching, with stringent new practices conforming with the Hague Convention, an international adoption treaty.

Other countries from which adoptions declined significantly included Russia, Ukraine and Kazakhstan and India.

The biggest increase was in adoptions from Ethiopia — they rose from 1,255 to 1,725, moving the Horn of Africa nation into fourth place on the State Department's list, just behind Russia. No other African country provided more than 250 adoptees last year, although the continent is viewed as one of the few potential growth regions for international adoption.

Adoptions expected to drop further
Thomas DiFilipo, president of the Joint Council on International Children's Services, predicted overall numbers would drop even more sharply for 2009, to as low as 10,000 to 12,000 foreign adoptions, as China continues its cutback and adoptions from Guatemala and Vietnam diminish.

There were 751 adoptions from Vietnam in fiscal 2008, but the U.S.-Vietnam adoption agreement expired on Sept. 1 as the two countries argued about fraud and corruption in the system. Hundreds of American families seeking to adopt from Vietnam were left in limbo.

DiFilipo said he doubted any foreign country would ever replace China as the source of 7,000 or even 5,000 adoptees per year. He predicted instead that far smaller numbers of adoptees would be comimg from a pool of perhaps 40 or 50 countries, including an increasing share from Africa and Latin America.

DiFilipo said the drop-off in foreign adoptions has been devastating to many U.S.-based agencies which specialize in them — forcing closures or mergers. He predicted that the number of direct-service agencies with programs abroad would drop to fewer than 100 by the end of 2009, a third of the peak a few years ago.

'Rough time for the agencies'
"It's a rough time for the agencies," said Joshua Zhong, president of Colorado-based Chinese Children Adoption International. "It is more difficult for the families. They feel they're waiting forever; they're very discouraged."

Zhong said his agency — one of the largest in the U.S. that specializes in adoptions from China — expects to place 450 children by the end of the year, down from about 1,200 in 2005. The average waiting time for his clients has stretched from 12 months to three years, he said.

One byproduct of the decline in foreign adoptions is likely to be an intensified campaign to persuade adoptive parents to take children from the U.S. foster care system. Roughly 125,000 youths in the system are available for adoption, including a disproportionately large number of racial minorities.

"We're urging families to think about these kids," said Chuck Johnson. "We have a lot of work to do."

Sunday, November 9, 2008

Baby Shower for Kris' New Daughter

Yesterday was a wonderful day. One of Kris' friends organized a wonderful baby/birthday shower for Cate - her new daughter. Today is Cate's 4th birthday. Kris is leaving on Wednesday for China to pick her up. I am so excited for her. Below is a picture of Kris' new daughter, Cate. Isn't she just too cute.

Thursday, November 6, 2008

November Matches Are In

UPDATED INFO: The next set of matches have arrived at the agencies. It is now official that the cut-off is February 17, 2006 - a 2-day referral month. SUCKS!! It's not surprising that it's a low number of referral days this month will all of the melamine issues being dealt with and having all of the children being tested for kidney stones relating to it. It is just so sad.

The only good thing I can think of right now is that our daughter probably isn't born yet and am hopeful that this melamine issue isn't going to be a lingering problem when we travel to pick up our daughter. It's disheartening to think of the thousands of children who now are in the midst of being tested and found to have melamine stones in their kidneys. My heart goes out to those parents.

Tuesday, November 4, 2008

We Did Our Civic Duties

Robert and I both voted today. Robert went at 7 am and endured a 1-hour wait and I went around 2 pm and went right through. Yeah for me! Tonight we're going to a friend's house to enjoy some pizza and beer and watch Obama win the election (I hope!). It should be a fun night!





UPDATE: It's amazing to me to watch the world reacting to Obama's victory. I think it's a positive step forward! May we have a positive 4 years of change ahead...

Monday, November 3, 2008

Get out and VOTE!!

Election Day is tomorrow, so don't forget to get out to the polls. This is going to be a landmark election. I can't wait to get out and vote!

Friday, October 31, 2008

Happy Halloween!

I hope everyone has a spook-tacular Halloween today! I'm off to volunteer at the Red Cross today and then get ready for the onslaught of about 75 kids ringing the doorbell. It should be a fun day. Tonight we are ordering a pumpkin-shaped pizza for dinner. Should be a great day!

Monday, October 27, 2008

Our First Day of Snow

Yes, it's only October 27th and it is snowing outside. YUCK!! I am just not ready for winter to make its arrival, but here it came... I better bundle up and put on my winter coat for the day... Thank g-d for central heating!

Another true sign it's cold outside - you get a snuggly kitty... That and multiple requests from her to be placed on the bed and under the covers (she's too old to jump up on the bed now on her own, so she'll meow until you put her up there).

Sunday, October 26, 2008

The Melamine problem seems to be growing

Well, the newest scare is now involving eggs found to have high melamine levels. They seem to be thinking that it can be traced to the feed given to the chickens that laid the eggs.

The government said in a statement it found 4.7 parts per million of melamine in the eggs produced by a division of China's Dalian Hanwei Enterprise Group based in the northeastern port city Dalian. The legal limit of melamine in Hong Kong is 2.5 ppm.

The new results have prompted officials to expand food testing to meat imports from China.

In an earlier egg-related food safety scare, the banned cancer-causing industrial dye, Sudan Red, was used to color egg yolks.

The Hong Kong government also said it found excessive amounts of melamine in Blueberry Cream Sandwich crackers made by Philippine company Croley Foods MFG. Corp.

I think what we can all learn from this is NOT to buy any food item made in China until all of this mess is cleared up!!

Wednesday, October 22, 2008

Better Late than Never...

So, I'm extremely behind in my postings these days. It's just been rough since we've been back from our vacation at the Grand Teton and Yellowstone National Parks. So, now I am finally getting to post a few pix from our trip. We were there from August 30th through September 9th. It was a wonderful 10-day vacation that we both just loved!! We woke up every morning and had beautiful scenery and some great hiking. The weather, for the most part, was decent. We did have snow and hail one day. Thankfully for us, it was a travel day from when we drove from Jackson Hole to Yellowstone National Park. Note: these are only 12 out of the 1500 photos that we took. I am sparing your eyes... Here are the highlights of our trip.

Here we are enjoying an evening cocktail inside the Old Faithful Inn. It was so amazing there. Definitely have to go back!!

This is what a traffic jam looks like in Yellowstone...

Wednesday Funnies

In honor of my parent's visit to Madison on Monday, I thought a little family humor would be in order. Plus, as Robert already knows... I'm always "right."

Thursday, October 16, 2008

Seeing the Fall Colors

This past Sunday, Robert took another flying lesson that I got to join in on. We went out (with his flight instructor) to look at the beautiful fall colors of Door County, WI. The views were just amazing. Here are just a few of the views out the airplane window. It was just breath-taking! We left around 8:30 am and got home around 4:00 pm. It was a very enjoyable day.

Wednesday, October 15, 2008

USCIS Announces Adoption Policy for Hague Transition Cases

Grandfathered Form I-600A Affected

U.S. Citizenship and Immigration Services (USCIS) announced yesterday that prospective adoptive parents already in the process of adopting a child from a country that has implemented the Hague Convention on Protection of Children and Co-operation in Respect of Intercountry Adoption (Hague Adoption Convention) who filed a Form I-600A, Application for Advance Processing of Orphan Petition, prior to April 1, 2008, and who have received the one time no-charge extension, may file one additional Form I-600A, and continue to proceed with their intercountry adoption through the “orphan” process. The new Form I-600A must be filed before the current approval expires, and only if the prospective adoptive parents have not yet filed the corresponding Form I-600, Petition to Classify Orphan as an Immediate Relative.

Well, the petition worked! Finally something good that USCIS did. If only they could make it so that we only had to file for the paperwork once with no expiration until the adoption is completed. It still sucks that we'll be continuing on with all of this nasty paperwork and extra money outlay, but I guess it could be worse if we had to transition over to the I-800 form. The I-800 form is only good for 15 vs 18 months (with the I-600) and requires a more major home study rewrite which would have cost us more money and more extensive background checks. As it currently stands, we may still not be completed with our adoption by the time our 3rd I-600A form expires. Our current one expires in April 2009. Gotta see if there's a way to drag it out a bit... Keep your fingers crossed for us!

Monday, October 6, 2008

Please Help By Signing this Petition!

Those of you who are tangled up in international adoption and specifically adoption from China are well aware of the implications of the Hague and our I-600a approvals. For those of you not involved, the I-600a is the the clearance you get from the US Government that allows you to return to this country with your new child. Without this approval, you can't get on your plane home with your baby. The US just became Hague compliant which means they now participate with many countries around the world to prevent child trafficking. Yes, good. Very good. However now the thousands of families like us who are in the MIDDLE of this adoption process are being asked to spend more money, more time, and perhaps delay their process by having to get re-approved by the US Government. Mind you that all of us spent close to $1000 to be I-600a approved at the onset of this process, then most of us have already had to spend money to get re-approved when the I-600a expired 18 months later, and now we may have to become I-800a approved which requires much more hoop jumping. We were initially told that people with a valid I-600a would be considered "transition" families and would be grandfathered in. Now it seems that may not be the case. There is a petition being signed to keep us "transition" families grandfathered in and I am asking ALL of you to click this link and sign it. You can also read more about this in greater detail on that blog. Whether you are in the process of an adoption or not, please help us by signing this petition. The Joint Council, in collaboration with Adoption For All organizers David Yurkovich and Dianne Pearce, will present the petition and all signatories to Congressional leaders on October 18th. To ensure that your signature is included, please sign the petition no later than October 16th. Thank You!

Sunday, October 5, 2008

100 Pearls of Chinese Wisdom

"Fate brings people together no matter how far apart they may be."
- 100 Pearls of Chinese Wisdom

Saturday, October 4, 2008

Viruses

First off, I've had this nasty virus for the past few days. I woke up with a sore throat on Wednesday and it has progressed from there. Not fun! All I've wanted to do is sleep all day - so I have.

The other kind of virus I had a visit from was of the computer sort. If you were on my contact list in my yahoo e-mail account, then I'm sure that you received a lovely "Dear Friend" e-mail from someone posing as me. The people who send out these nasty Malware viruses should be shot on site. It is such a violation of our lives. The sender of the e-mail not only sent out e-mails to everyone on my contact list, but also deleted all of my contacts. So, if you'd like to hear from me, please e-mail me again so I can have your e-mail address back into my contact list. I have also changed my password to help protect it from further invasions and have added further securities to my account.

Tuesday, September 30, 2008

L'Shana Tova

To those celebrating Rosh Hashana - Happy New Year! May you all have a very sweet New Year!

October Matches are In

We don't know the exact cut-off yet, but our agency has referrals thru February 15, 2006. The exact cut-off could either be the 15th or the 16th, but more likely the 15th. Again, as usual, this is a 6-day referral month. I think that means only 149 more referral days to go... so short, but yet so long to go...

Friday, September 26, 2008

China's Latest Disaster: Tainted Infant Formula

The problem first showed up in China in infant formula made with contaminated milk.

Nearly 53,000 children in China have been sickened by it or other products contaminated with the chemical melamine. Four babies have died. More than a dozen countries, from Asia to Africa to Europe, have banned or recalled Chinese milk products. The United States, meanwhile, said inspectors would expand testing for Chinese products that may contain high levels of milk or milk proteins.

Authorities in China have arrested 18 people in a nationwide investigation. They include two brothers who face charges of selling contaminated milk; the brothers could face death if convicted, according to China Daily, a state-run newspaper.

The raw milk used to produce powdered baby formula had been watered down, and the chemical melamine was added to fool quality checks, the newspaper said.

In the U.S., the Food and Drug Administration said its investigators had not found the Chinese infant formula in question during visits to more than 1,000 stores. They were mainly in cities with large Chinese communities, such as Los Angeles and San Francisco, California; Seattle, Washington; and New York.

The FDA plans to continue such checks, it said, and "has broadened its domestic and import sampling and testing of milk-derived ingredients and finished food products containing milk, such as candies, desserts, and beverages that could contain these ingredients from Chinese sources."

Melamine is commonly used in coatings and laminates, wood adhesives, fabric coatings, ceiling tiles and flame retardants. Some Chinese dairy plants have added it to milk products to make it seem to have a higher protein level.

Melamine is the same industrial contaminant from China that poisoned and killed thousands of U.S. dogs and cats last year.

Health experts say that ingesting melamine can lead to kidney stones, urinary tract ulcers, and eye and skin irritation. It also robs infants of much-needed nutrition.

Regarding the children in orphanages, this is what I've heard:
A letter was sent out to all the orphanages as soon as the crisis was recognized. Orders were to have all children examined at local hospitals and that the government will cover all costs, including any necessary treatment. All orphanages using identified tainted brands have changed to either fresh milk or to a brand that has been identified as safe. There have been reports of children with kidney stones and have or are in the process of being treated.

I just can't wait for the day when China does something right for once! Like maybe a speed-up in the referral process!!

Thursday, September 25, 2008

My Stitches are Out!

Well, on Tuesday I got my stitches removed along with the steri-strips that were covering my stitches. I was so happy to have those removed. Now I don't have anything on me causing me allergic reactions on my neck. Yeah!!

Being allergic to all adhesives (like band-aids) really bites! This is a newer allergy for me - I only found out about it maybe a few months ago when I was giving blood at the Red Cross and they put a latex-free band-aid on me. When I removed it - voila! A rash just where the adhesive was.

The scar on my neck is pretty small and I think he placed it in one of my creases on my neck, so I think the scar is going to meld in there nicely. I'll have Robert take a picture of my "new and improved" self at some point soon and post it.

Friday, September 19, 2008

Things are Normalizing

Well, today, I'm feeling a bit better than yesterday (as I'm sure I will be feeling a bit better daily now). My fingers and toes aren't as tingly (a sign of low calcium) as they were and my leg cramp, while still here, is a bit better. My magnesium levels that they took yesterday were all normal, so they're not sure why my body was reacting as it was, they think that probably my body just needs to get used to this new lower calcium level and all will be well. Time will tell.

Hope this doesn't gross you out too much, but here is what my "Frankenstein" neck looks like now. The stitches come out on Tuesday afternoon. I am allergic to all adhesives, so that is why my neck is a bit rashy - I have to keep the stitches area dry for the next 2 weeks and when I cover the area up with this special tape, I break out. NOT FUN!!

Thursday, September 18, 2008

I'm Back!

Well, the surgery is over and done with! I have a one-inch scar on my neck. My neck is swollen and it feels like I have a huge lump in it. My actual pain is pretty minimal, but I feel lots of stretching and pulling in my neck muscles. You also don't realize how much you use your neck muscles until something is actually done to them. I can't drive right now, since I am unable to turn my neck enough for me to drive safely. Right now I'm having some residual side effects from the surgery - my fingers and toes are all "tingly" and I woke up this morning with a serious muscle cramp in my left leg. They are still working on why that's happening. They are going to do another blood test to see if maybe it's my magnesium level?? I'll find that out this afternoon. My calcium and parathyroid hormones are all back to normal, though. So, that at least, is good. I should be fully recovered in a few weeks. Yeah!!

I will be home now just hanging out the next few days, since I can't do anything - no driving, no lifting, no nothing... Can we say "BORED!!"

Also, a big "Thank You" to my mom for taking care of me the past few days. It was such a huge help to have you around - especially for that last-minute run to the hospital last night. I love you!

Sunday, September 14, 2008

Parathyroid Surgery is tomorrow

Well, tomorrow I go under the knife to have my parathyroid gland removed. I'm a bit nervous - just not knowing how I'm going to feel afterwards. During my pre-op appointment, the nurse went over the procedure and told me all the possible things that can go wrong. It's a bit scary.

I will have about a 1 inch scar on my neck. My voice to begin with is going to be very hoarse. I may feel like I have a huge lump in my throat - kind of like having strep throat. I won't be able to turn my neck - so I can't see to drive. They don't want me lifting more than 10 pounds - I probably won't have the strength anyways. My calcium level may drop causing me to get a tingling sensation in my lips, toes, fingers where I will need to take a Tums to bring my level up again.

I have to be at the hospital at 10:45 am. At 11:45 am, I go in for nuclear medicine where they inject me with a radioactive dye. Then, at 1:30 pm, I go in for surgery. The surgery is about 1.5 hours and I'll be in recovery about 1.5 hours. Then, when I'm strong enough to walk again, I can finally go home!

Robert and I went grocery shopping so we at least have food for tonight and tomorrow. My mom is coming in on Tuesday morning to take over for Robert in taking care of me. It's going to be great to have her here helping out.

Happy Moon Festival!

Today marks the Mid-Autumn Moon Festival in China. The Mid-Autumn Festival is one of the two most important holidays in the Chinese calendar (the other being the Chinese Lunar New Year). Farmers celebrate the end of the summer harvesting season on this date. Traditionally, on this day, Chinese family members and friends will gather to admire the bright mid-autumn harvest moon, and eat moon cakes and pomeloes together. Accompanying the celebration, there are additional cultural or regional customs, such as:
* Eating moon cakes outside under the moon
* Putting pomelo rinds on one's head
* Carrying brightly lit lanterns, lighting lanterns on towers, floating sky lanterns
* Burning incense in reverence to deities including Chang'e
* Planting Mid-Autumn trees
* Collecting dandelion leaves and distributing them evenly among family members
* Fire Dragon Dances

Wednesday, September 10, 2008

Referrals Came Out While We Were Away...

Here's the latest happenings while we were away enjoying ourselves in Yellowstone National Park and the Grand Teton National Park. I'll post about our trip later after we've settled in, done laundry, gone grocery shopping and uploaded photos.

Looks like the CCAA placed children from February 1 - 9, 2006. Getting ever closer, but not quite close enough... Only 155 days worth of LIDs to go...

Wednesday, August 27, 2008

Love Without Boundaries

This month's donation from my CafePress stores went to Love Without Boundaries - a wonderful charity that helps the lives of thousands of Chinese children in orpahnages through foster care, medical, education, and nutrition programs.

I also learned another valuable tip - if you enter Amazon.com through the Love Without Boundaries website, they receive 4% of the sale! If only I had known about that earlier...

Sunday, August 24, 2008

Happy Birthday Robert!

I cannot tell a lie - it's Robert's birthday today. He spent the morning with his mom going to a scale model fly-in airshow and then the three of us went out for burgers for lunch. Here's a nice photo of my sweetie with one of the planes he takes his flying lessons on.

Milwaukee Zoo outing

This past Thursday I went into Milwaukee for the day to see my sister, brother-in-law and my 2 nephews who were in town from Minneapolis to visit my parents (grandma and grandpa). Highlights for me were seeing Tommy and Billy (of course!) and watching Tommy overcome his fear of animals to actually take a pony ride at the Milwaukee Zoo - and he had a great time!! Look how proud he looks on the pony. He is such a love!!


Here's the whole gang - minus me, of course, the photographer.

Sun Prairie Corn Festival

Well, I'm a bit behind these days on my posting, so I'm going to try to play a game of catch-up now. Last weekend we had our friends Eric, Susan and future son-in-law Evan in town to go to the Sun Prairie Corn Festival. They've been wanting to come up and see it for years and now finally were able to. We had a great time with them and ate LOTS of corn. You pay $6 for all the corn you can pile into the tote. Afterwards, we bought some corn to take home. Here's a few pix from the day.

Friday, August 15, 2008

Happy 19th Birthday!


Well, "Highness" (as we like to call her) turns the grand 19 years old today. She rules this house with a strict paw. We are merely here to serve her kitty needs - which includes treats, pets, brushes and lazing about on our back deck soaking up the afternoon sun. Being half Siamese, she is a very vocal little kitty and is always very clear as to what she wants and will continue to meow or stare us down until we give her what she wants. And we, being the softies that we are, give in!

She has started to show the signs of aging and has slowed down a lot in the past year. We just enjoy every minute of every day that we have with her. She is such a sweet and loving kitty (at least to us).

Tuesday, August 12, 2008

Hyperparathyroidism Diagnosis

Please forgive this very long post. I just hope that if this can help one person, then I'm glad.

A few weeks ago, I was diagnosed with hyperparathyroidism. I’ve been trying to wrap my brain around this and learning all I can about this under-diagnosed condition. It was found by one of my doctors when I had a high calcium level in my blood. Further blood work found that I also had high parathyroid hormone levels, meaning that I have primary hyperparathyroidism. I will be having surgery on September 15th to have the offending parathyroid gland removed and regain my life again.

Now, for a little lesson: We all have 4 parathyroid glands (no, they are NOT the same as a thyroid gland. In the picture at left, they are the small yellow objects over the thyroid and have 2 on each side of the trachea.). The ONLY purpose of the parathyroid glands is to regulate the calcium level in our body so that the nervous and muscular systems can function properly. This is all they do. They measure the amount of calcium in the blood every minute of every day... and if the calcium levels go down a little bit, the parathyroid glands recognize it and make parathyroid hormone (PTH) which goes to the bones and takes some calcium out and puts it into the blood. When the calcium in the blood is high enough, then the parathyroids shut down and stop making PTH.

The most common cause of hyperparathyroidism is the development of a benign tumor in one of the parathyroid glands. This enlargement of one parathyroid gland is called a parathyroid adenoma which accounts for about 94% of all patients with primary hyperparathyroidism (this is what I have). This “naughty” parathyroid gland is slowly causing damage to my body because it puts out an abnormally high level of calcium in the blood which can slowly destroy a number of tissues. Parathyroid adenomas can range in size from an olive to a walnut. The normal parathyroid gland is about the size of a grain of rice... but one cell inside this normal parathyroid gland went out of control and started reproducing itself until a large tumor developed (naughty thing!). This tumor will almost always continue to grow until it is removed (which is why I have scheduled my surgery to remove it on Sept 15th). As it grows, it makes more hormone and will make you feel worse. This tumor is constantly making parathyroid hormone which is what takes the calcium out of your bones and makes the calcium in your blood too high. This is exactly what I don’t want!

Some Symptoms of Parathyroid Disease
  • Loss of energy. Don't feel like doing much. Tired all the time.
  • Just don't feel well; don't quite feel normal. Hard to explain but just feel kind of bad.
  • Feel old. Don't have the interest in things that you used to.
  • Can't concentrate, or can't keep your concentration like in the past.
  • Depression.
  • Osteoporosis and Osteopenia.
  • Bones hurt; typically it's bones in the legs and arms but can be most bones.
  • Don't sleep like you used to. Wake up in middle of night. Trouble getting to sleep.
  • Tired during the day and frequently feel like you want a nap.
  • Spouse claims you are more irritable and harder to get along with (cranky, bitchy).
  • Forget simple things that you used to remember very easily.
  • Gastric acid reflux; heartburn; GERD.
  • Decrease in sex drive.
  • Thinning hair (predominately in older females).
  • Kidney Stones.
  • High Blood Pressure (sometimes mild, sometimes quite severe; up and down a lot).
  • Recurrent Headaches (usually patients under the age of 40).
  • Heart Palpitations (arrhythmias). Typically atrial arrhythmias.
Most people with hyperparathyroidism will have 4 - 6 of these symptoms. Thankfully, I have very few of them. In general, the longer you have hyperparathyroidism, the more symptoms you will develop.

Side note: this diagnosis also carries with it one nasty little secret – an 85% miscarriage rate, of which I’ve had 7 of them.

Monday, August 11, 2008

August Referrals are in...

Here's the official post from the CCAA.
The CCAA has finished the review of the adoption application documents registered with our office before January 31, 2007.

The CCAA has finished the placement of children for the families whose adoption application documents were registered with our office before January 31, 2006.
What I don't understand is that some of these dates are included in those of the Chinese New Year and why didn't they go through February 5th to include the rest of the Chinese New Year dates? The CCAA office was closed during those days and no dossiers were logged in at that time, so I'm just so confused?! So much for the psychological boost of a large referral month!

So, they referred 6 days worth of LIDs and now we have 164 days worth of referrals to go... 2010 is still looking like a reality... bummer!

Friday, August 8, 2008

Beijing Olympics 8-8-08

Well, this evening I was mesmerized by the amazing opening ceremony for the start of the Olympics. It truly was beautiful to watch. I was just amazed that 2008 people could stay in sinc for the whole performance - whether it was the cool drummers or tai chi masters. WOW!! If you missed it, it's definitely worth a peek at the video stream of it.

I also love the slogan "One World One Dream", but I'd like to modify it a bit to say "In My World, My Dream is to Have My Daughter Home with Me NOW"

Let the games begin...

Sunday, August 3, 2008

National Mustard Day 2008

On Saturday, Robert and I headed off to Mt. Horeb - Troll capital of the world and home of the Mustard Museum (where they have the world'd largest selection of mustards to see and buy) - to celebrate National Mustard Day. We only live about 15 minutes from there. It was a beautiful day here in Madison with temps in the mid-80s and sunny. They had free Oscar Meyer hot dogs (only free if you slathered them with mustard, of course!), the Oscar Meyer weiner-mobile (you could get your free weiner-mobile whistles and get to see inside the vehicle), music and lots of games for the kids. It was a lot of fun.


Note: I am holding a "poisonous" hot dog. I actually put some ketchup (along with some mustard) on mine. All of the ketchup bottles had "poison" stickers on them. You gotta love a warped sense of humor.

Adoption Piece on NBC Nightly News

Not sure how many of you caught the adoption piece on NBC's Nightly News last night, but here's a link to view it. It didn't say anything we didn't already know...
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/21134540/vp/25988324#25988324

Wednesday, July 30, 2008

TV Series "China from the Inside"

Tonight on PBS was part 4 of a 4-part series called "China from the Inside." It was a beautiful and sometimes sad account about China. It really provided a unique view of China - the Communist Party, Rural Women, the Chinese environmental problems, and religious freedom. It was a really fascinating series that really gave me a deeper understanding of my future daughter's country and the culture that she will be coming from. Below is a description from tonight's final episode. Since it's PBS, I'm sure that they will replay them all. It is a worthwhile series to watch.

Episode 4: Freedom and Justice
Religious worship in China is problematic for Tibetan Buddhists, Catholics separated from Vatican influence, the 40 million adherents of China's unofficial churches, and the Falun Gong. Civic problems include forced evictions, government cover-up of AIDS, corruption and land grabbing. Filmed in Tibetan temples, newspaper offices and a labor camp, this final episode asks: what are the limits of freedom -- and the threats to stability?

Friday, July 25, 2008

Definitions

This came from Rita L on my China Lifebooks yahoo group that I'm on and I thought this was so wonderful.

Natural Child: Any child who is not artificial.
Real Parent: Any parent who is not imaginary.
Your Own Child: Any child who is not someone else's child.
Adopted Child: A natural child, with a real parent, who is all my own.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

I Wish I Could Use These Airfares

I was checking some airfares on American Airlines website and I came across these fare sales for China. While they are of no use to me (unfortunately), I know that some of you who read my site may be traveling soon. Here's some of the fares they are advertising - they are all to/from Shanghai. Fares are valid for outbound travel August 26 through November 30, 2008. All travel must be complete by December 30, 2008.

Tuesday, July 22, 2008

Happy Anniversary to Us!


Yesterday, we celebrated 6 wonderful years of marital bliss. (or as Robert likes to say, "6 down, 1 to go...") Time sure flies when you're having fun! We celebrated by having a beer on the Memorial Union Terrace and then went out for a very nice dinner at one of our favorite Italian restaurants - Bellini Italian Restaurant. Robert even bought me some beautiful red roses. I guess he occasionally appreciates me!

Here's a look back at our wedding photo. I don't feel any different now...

Monday, July 21, 2008

China Earthquake Donation

Well, today I made my first of many contributions from sales of my CafePress stores to the earthquake fund of Half the Sky Foundation. The next check that I receive from CafePress will go to Love Without Boundaries. Since China's May earthquake, I have created many CafePress stores selling adoption-related gifts in order to raise money to help those children affected by the earthquake.

I would also like to say "Thank You" to all those who have bought items from my stores. Your generosity is appreciated. If you are interested in checking the items out, you will find the links to the various stores in the purple column on the right side of my blog.

Friday, July 18, 2008

Destress Your Life Through Food

Instead of relaying depressing adoption woes, I decided to post today about my favorite topic - food. I was brought up in a great family where at breakfast, you discussed lunch, at lunch you discussed dinner and at dinner time you discussed the next day's breakfast. Of course, I think my mom is the world's greatest cook!

With all of the stress of a Chinese adoption, I find pleasure in eating some great comfort food. This recipe is one of my favorites for brunches. For those who don't know what a blintz is - it's the Jewish form of a filled crepe. You can find them in the frozen section of your local grocery store.

Blintz Soufflé

2 pkgs Blintzes (I like either fruit or cheese blintzes)
1 stick butter
4 eggs, well beaten
1-1/2 cups sour cream
1/4 cup sugar
1/2 tsp salt
1 tsp vanilla
1 Tablespoon orange juice (optional - I never use)

Melt butter in a 2-quart Pyrex and place blintzes over melted butter in one layer.
Blend other ingredients with eggs and pour over blintzes.
Bake in a 350 degree oven for 45 minutes or until top starts to brown.

Note: You can use light sour cream to keep the calories down a bit, but NOT the FAT FREE sour cream - doesn't work.

Happy Eating!!

Monday, July 14, 2008

Our 2-Year Anniversary of our LID

Well, today marks our second anniversary of being logged-in in China. It's not exactly a celebratory occasion for us. It's been more of a roller coaster ride! This wait is enough to test even the most patient of persons. It's just hard to grasp the fact that we're only half-way through this whole process. When we started, we never imagined that it would progress to this - who could have! Even during SARS, the waits were only about 18 months or so, so there was nothing that could have prepared us for this lengthy wait to our daughter. But, 2 years later, here we are still waiting for the wonderful day when we get our referral.

As we speak, our paperwork is still sitting in line waiting for our LID (log-in date) to be next in line for our referral. The referral is the official package that our agency, CCAI, will receive from the CCAA on our behalf with information about our daughter. It will contain her Chinese name, her age, where she is living, her medical condition, pictures and any other information the orphanage or foster family provides. It's hard to imagine the number of files (dossiers) still ahead of us - and it has to be thousands of them. So, our wait continues...

Sunday, July 13, 2008

Sunday Funnies

I'm not experiencing any computer problems, but thought this was too funny! Enjoy!

Saturday, July 12, 2008

Art Fair On the Square

This year was the 50th Anniversary of the Art Fair on the Square. We were also blessed by the weather gods today as it stopped raining just before the art fair began this morning. It was also very comfortable weather and overcast, making for an enjoyable stroll around the square. I went with my lovely artist friend Judy and we got inspired to paint again. Afterwards, we had drinks and lunch at the Old Fashioned restaurant. I went for the Mojito (Yum!) and Judy went for the Bloody Mary with a beer chaser. All I can say, is that our smiles were at least a mile wide.

This painting is by one of the artists at the Art Fair on the Square (Shelby Keefe) - this one is of the Chinatown in SanFrancisco. I chose this painting to post because this was Judy's favorite artist at the fair and because it's of Chinatown (China theme). I just love the bright colors and great brush strokes! (note: even better in person!)

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Surfer Dudes!

Well, my sister sent me this photo of my nephews and it was just too cute not to post. Here they are just having a great time pretending to be catching some waves. I could just eat them up! I miss them so much!

Monday, July 7, 2008

July's Batch of Referrals Are Official!

Well, it's official now. Here's this months referral notice:
The CCAA has finished the placement of children for the families whose adoption application documents were registered with our office before January 25, 2006.

This is a 5-day referral month (Jan. 21 - 25, 2006). Only 170 days worth of referrals to go... Let's keep 'em coming... At current pace, I think we're looking at the latter part of 2010 for our referral.

Sunday, July 6, 2008

I Have A New Idol


At the age of 41, Dara Torres has just made her 5th Olympics. As a fellow competitive swimmer I am astounded at the fact that she's still as fast as she is - even after having a child. She won the 50m and 100m Freestyle - my events!! Something to aspire to, I guess. As soon as my shoulder gets better, I'm going to have to hit the pool again. Seems like age just isn't what it used to be. Thank g-d!! In case you're wondering - I'm 21 and holding... I'll never tell!