Wednesday, May 28, 2008

The 5th friendliest city in America

By Barbara Corcoran, Today Show contributor

What makes a city friendly? We looked for certain standards like safety, diversity, pedestrian and bike friendliness, as well as the presence of parks and public spaces. Then we looked for something unique, like a place that always has big, fun public events or someplace with a lot of farmers markets. Most importantly, we talked to brokers to get their personal stories of friendliness. And finally, we took a look at statistics that help make a place friendly, such as enough hotel rooms to welcome visitors, enough bars to have a robust happy hour, enough tourists willing to visit and, of course, budget-friendly home prices.

Here are some notes, findings and quotes from our 5th friendliest city:
Madison, Wisconsin: Friends help friends through the snowstorms

“It’s pretty hard to walk down the street of any neighborhood without getting a friendly smile or a friendly wave. Madison is a very active town with many bike paths, parks and lakes for residents to enjoy. Having so much in the way of outdoor activities really does get Madison’s residents interacting with each other in a fun environment.

Madison gets its share of snowfall every year along with some bitterly cold weather. It's not uncommon to go a week or two without cracking 10 degrees. You might think this would put everyone in a bad mood. It seems to have the opposite effect on many Madison residents, however. This past year, and really every year that I can remember, neighbors have gone way out of their way to help those who need assistance to make it through the winter. Every year there are one or two big snowstorms and even before the snow has finished falling there is the sound of people snow-blowing out the driveway of their house and many of their neighbors', or sights of people helping push cars through the snow of condo complexes, or just checking on their elderly neighbors and friends. My uncle used to fire up the snowplow in the morning and clear out the sidewalks of his whole street.” — John Schroeder, Madison real estate broker

Did you know?
  • There are 15 farmers markets throughout the city.
  • Voted #8 in the 100 Best places to raise a family
  • Madison ranks No. 1 on Prevention Magazine’s list of most walkable cities.
  • It’s a college town, and the thriving student life at the University of Wisconsin makes the area a vibrant epicenter for music, art and theater.
  • State Street is downtown’s pedestrian mall.

Thursday, May 22, 2008

This is how you know you have an old kitty


This is what happens when you're an 18 year old kitty and you are approached by an angry mom Robin. Her baby decided to land about 2 inches from our little cutie and what does she do - nothing!! Her feeling - I'm just too darn old for this! I used to like to chase birds, but now it makes my arthritis hurt too much. I'd rather soak up the morning sun!

Here's a short video clip of the event. Enjoy!

Thursday, May 15, 2008

China's Earthquake: Donations Needed

On the afternoon of Monday, May 12, 2008, a massive earthquake, measuring 7.8 on the Richter Scale, rocked China. The epicenter was Wenchuan County, Sichuan, northwest of Chengdu. They are currently fearing that death tolls could reach up to 50,000 people - many of them, children. Below are 2 wonderful organizations that are taking donations to help the children and orphanages of China.

Half the Sky Foundation:
In cooperation with China's Ministry of Civil Affairs, the ministry responsible for disaster relief in China, Half the Sky has created the HTS CHILDREN'S EARTHQUAKE FUND. Your donations to the fund will be used to provide emergency and long-term relief to children in Sichuan and Chongqing affected by the quake. If you wish to make a gift, please visit our quake relief donation site at Global Giving or, if you prefer, donate directly through Half the Sky's earthquake donation page. Either way, we can promise that your gift will reach the children who urgently need help.
http://www.halfthesky.org

Update: You may also use Global Giving's website for Half the Sky.
http://www.globalgiving.com/pr/2100/proj2086a.html

Love Without Boundaries:
Earthquake Aid: A 7.8 magnitude earthquake struck Sichuan Province, China. Our heartfelt condolences are sent for lives lost and damage incurred as a result of this disaster. While we know there was great devastation and we are seeking further information from our China staff, we will not know the extent of the damage for a period of time. All of us at LWB are very concerned for the safety and well-being of all affected by this disaster. We are currently working on assessing the situation as it relates to the children in LWB programs and those orphanages impacted. We are starting an Earthquake Relief Fund to be able to provide immediate assistance.
http://www.lovewithoutboundaries.com

Monday, May 12, 2008

Our Neighbors

Our neighbors stopped over the other day and I had lots of fun playing with the girls with our Fisher Price farm, puzzles, and books. Both of their daughters drew a picture for our future daughter from China. Lhanze was so cute in wanting our daughter to come already (as are we...) Here is what Lhanze (age 7) drew for our daughter. I'm saving it for when our daughter does come home.

Sunday, May 11, 2008

Happy Mother's Day!

Wishing all of us a Happy Mother's Day and a Happy Mommy-To-Be Day! Wishing everyone all the best.

Monday, May 5, 2008

One of the worst months, again...

Well, as usual, it was another horrifically bad month for referrals. ONLY 3 DAYS!! LIDs of January 10 through 12, 2006 got referrals this month. It seems like time to our referral keeps getting stretched out further and further each day. 183 more days worth of log-in dates to go...

Sunday, May 4, 2008

Robert's First Solo Flight!

Today is a momentus day... Robert solo'd for his very first time after only 10 or 11 hours of flight instruction. His instructor, Pete, said he was the earliest of all of his students to be ready to solo. He started with a lesson from his instructor and then his instructor left the airplane and he did 4 take-offs and landings with only himself in the airplane. Pete had called me on Friday to let me know that he'd be soloing and for me to secretly be there to witness. Robert didn't know I was there until he had landed after his 4th beautiful landing. He was so happy that I was there to witness this special occasion. He's been wanting to do this since he was a little boy.

Here's a short video clip from his 4th and best landing. Please excuse the poor quality... It was a pretty landing, but hard to see on this clip...



Here's what a husband looks like after a job well done!

Friday, May 2, 2008

Chinese Zodiac Quilt

Well, I've bought all the fabric I need for the sashing, border, and backing of the quilt. Now it's time to sew it. I just love all the squares that I received from my 100 Good Wishes Quilt Group. My mom is going to help me sew it all together. Wish us luck! Neither of us has ever sewn a quilt before... This quilt is going to be her carry around quilt. Later, I'll be working on her twin-sized one. Gotta start one at a time...

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

We may have a long wait, but at least we don't have to deal with this...

Vietnam to halt American adoptions after damning US report
By Chris Brummitt, Associated Press Writer

HO CHI MINH CITY, Vietnam — Vietnam, where growing numbers of Americans have turned to adopt a baby, announced Monday it would stop processing new adoption applications from U.S. citizens from July following allegations of baby-selling, corruption and fraud.

The abrupt cutoff cast a cloud of uncertainty over pending adoptions in the Southeast Asian country, which have surged in the face of tightened restrictions in China, Guatemala and elsewhere.

The announcement came days after The Associated Press published details of a U.S. Embassy report that outlined rampant abuses, including hospitals selling infants whose mothers could not pay their bills, brokers scouring villages for babies and a grandmother who gave away her grandchild without telling the child's mother.

"It is tragic for children that the U.S. government has not been able to find ways to work with the Vietnamese government to prevent adoption abuses while at the same time processing legitimate adoptions," said Tom Atwood, president of the Washington-based National Council for Adoption, a research and advocacy organization.

"Many hundreds, perhaps thousands, of children will not have families as a result of this failure of leadership."

U.S. adoptions have boomed in Vietnam, with Americans — including actress Angelina Jolie — adopting more than 1,200 Vietnamese children over the 18 months ending in March. In 2007, adoptions quadrupled from a year earlier.

In its nine-page report, the U.S. Embassy said some American adoption agencies paid orphanage officials as much as $10,000 per referral, while others took them on shopping sprees and junkets to the United States in return for a flow of babies.

It said questions arose after routine investigations turned up widespread inconsistencies in adoption paperwork. There was also a suspicious surge in the number of babies listed as abandoned, making it impossible to confirm the children were genuine orphans or that their parents had knowingly put them up for adoption, as required by U.S. law.

Vu Duc Long, director of Vietnam's International Adoption Agency, called the U.S. allegations "groundless." On Monday, he said Vietnam was scrapping a bilateral agreement with the United States that sought to regulate the adoption system.

"They (the Americans) can say whatever they want, but we are not going to renew it," Long said.

In a letter to the U.S. Embassy in Hanoi, Vietnam said it would stop taking adoption applications from American families after July 1. Adoption arrangements with other countries were unaffected.

The State Department said Vietnam's government would allow adoptions to be completed in pending cases where prospective parents had been matched with a child and received an official referral before Sept. 1.

After that date, it said any dossier that had not received a referral will be closed and returned to the adoption agency. It said given the time it takes to process a claim, any adoption initiated now would be unsuccessful.

The U.S. Embassy said it respected Hanoi's decision, but was confident of the accuracy of the report.

"The government of Vietnam has made their own decision, but we believe that our report speaks for itself," said spokeswoman Angela Aggeler.

It was not immediately clear how many U.S. couples were affected by the decision.

Linda Brownlee, executive director of a Washington-based international adoption agency, said the decision would mean that 20 families on its waiting list who will not be able to be matched with children in time.

"Now their dossiers will be returned to them," said Brownlee of The Adoption Center, one of more than 40 U.S. agencies that arrange adoptions of Vietnamese children.

She said the embassy report did not cover positive aspects of adoptions in the country.

"They didn't say how many visas they had approved with no problem," she said. "I know many agencies who have done great work there and that doesn't get reported."

Keith Wallace, CEO of Families Thru International Adoption, agreed. "The (abuse) cases reported by the embassy ... are such a very small fraction" of U.S. adoptions in Vietnam, he said. "It is wrong to imply that Vietnamese adoptions are corrupt through and through."

Vietnam suspended all adoptions with foreign countries in 2003 over concerns about corruption. U.S. adoptions resumed in 2005 under a bilateral agreement intended to ensure they were above board. It was due for renewal on Sept. 1.

Vietnam is only the latest country where U.S. adoptions have been halted or severely restricted.

Suspected fraud and other irregularities have cast a cloud over the nearly 3,000 pending U.S. adoptions from Guatemala, the second-largest source of U.S. adopted children after China. Under State Department pressure, Guatemala is allowing those to go through, but would-be parents were warned last year not to initiate new adoptions.

By contrast, adoptions from Ethiopia are on the increase, growing 71 percent to 1,255 last year. "Ethiopia has become a country where, because of the transparency of the system, many are adopting," said Wallace.

In the Ethiopian capital, Addis Ababa, American adoptive parents have become a common sight in the city's hotels.

On Monday, J.B. Sikes, of Anselmo, Neb., cradled his newly adopted son Binyam.

"It was my desire that my family represent what the Kingdom of God looks like, and that's all different colors," the 39-year-old corn farmer said.

Adopting in Ethiopia, which cost about $30,000, was less expensive and restrictive than in the United States, said Sikes, who has two other biological children.

"We started out wanting to adopt domestically, but we found we were the last one on everyone's list, because we have other children," he said.

Tuesday, April 22, 2008

They may look cute, but...

This little rabbit and his many little furry friends had a harsh winter (and I'd like to make them suffer further...). When the snow finally melted, I was amazed to find much of our landscaping destroyed. They had eaten around the bark of some of my bushes and plants - which I was told by our neighborhood garden shop - are not going to make it due to the extensive damage. I spent about 5 hours yesterday cleaning up and have at least that to go. Next, I am going to have to figure out what to replace the damaged goods with. NOT FUN!! Today was another round of gardening and still more to go...

Here is the little critter and the damage that he/they did...
As Elmer Fudd once said to Bugs Bunny: "kill the rabbit... kill the rabbit..."