Monday, December 28, 2009

Referrals and Notices

There are so many things to get me incensed these days when discussing this adoption. I don't even know where to begin some days. Around every corner there seem to be one more hurdle that we need to cross, one more thing to test our patience. It just all doesn't seem fair.

We have been waiting for 3.5 years now and if the trend continues, it doesn't look like this adoption will be completed until 2012 (a 6 year wait!). I don't know anyone who has learned more about patience than those of us in line to adopt a little girl or boy from China.

They did get through the next set of referrals - but it was only 3 days (2 of which were weekend days). NOT happy about that! 102 more log-in dates to go... Here's the official notice:

12/28/2009
CCAA

 The CCAA has finished the review of the adoption application  documents registered with our office before February 29, 2008.
 The CCAA has finished the placement of children for the families whose adoption application documents were registered with our office before April 3, 2006.

Then there's this not-so-lovely announcement from the CCAA regarding an incident involving parents who raped their adopted little girl from China. While this incident is reprehensible, how can they blame one bad apple on the whole adoption system and the rest of us who are going to be amazing parents and give these children a loving home. Here's the announcement:
Announcement
Date of Release: December 22, 2009   Souce: CCAA

To relevant government departments and adoption agencies in receiving countries,
Since China began working with relevant countries in inter-country adoption, the cooperation has been smooth and tens of thousands of Chinese children have been adopted by foreign families. The majority of them are growing healthily under the care and love of their adoptive parents. However, some media reported on December 14 about an American adoptive father who sexually abused his Chinese adoptive daughter, which have attracted broad attention and caused great shocks. Although this is a very rare case, it has caused negative effects on inter-country in China and is against the healthy development of inter-country adoption.
As the agency entrusted by Chinese government in charge of inter-country adoption, China Center of Adoption Affairs (CCAA) has always attached great importance to the protection of Chinese adoptive children’s rights and great attention to the children who have been adopted into foreign families. On December 16, CCAA met with the Consul-General of the American Embassy in China Ms. Linda Donahue and notified her about our position on this incident. President of relevant adoption agency also telephoned CCAA and expressed his apology. In order to guarantee the rights and interests of Chinese adoptive children and ensure the healthy and sustainable development in cooperation of inter-country adoption, CCAA plans to take the following measures:
1. CCAA will suspend the cooperation with relevant American agency and decide whether to continue cooperation with this agency depending on its treatment of this incident.
2. It is suggested that all the government departments and adoption agencies conduct a following-up research of all the children adopted from China. If problems turn up, relevant parties shall assist in the re-placement of the child affected and notify CCAA accordingly. It is also advised that government departments and adoption agencies do a good job in the post-placement following-up of adopted children in the future.
3. To learn a lesson from this incident, it is suggested that social workers of government departments and adoption agencies evaluate the eligibility of applicants factually and in details. Social workers shall not only evaluate quantifiable factors such as age, profession, education background, income etc., but also evaluate whether the applicants are loving parents and with good personalities, as reflected in feedbacks from schools, communities, churches, social groups, etc. so that the reports provided can serve as dependable reference for CCAA during the reviewing process.
4. CCAA will adjust the present post-placement reporting policies and improve this reporting system, after seeking opinions and comments from different parties, based on the new situation in inter-country adoption.
5. Depending on individual cases, CCAA will suspend or terminate cooperation with agencies that are involved in cases where adopted children’s interests and rights are harmed. Home study reports prepared by social workers who are involved in such cases as well as the social workers themselves will not be recognized by CCAA.
Government departments and adoption agencies shall follow the principle of “everything for the children” and assist in relevant work to guarantee the protection of rights and interests of adopted children and maintain the cooperation in inter-country adoption.

China Center of Adoption Affairs
December 22, 2009